was chatting abt group activities with someone and i realised there's always a prob here - cliques.

i guess as much as we want to plan something great for everybody, ppl eventually settle in the group that shares common interests, views, purposes, patterns of behavior, or even ethnicity -thats nature.

and i'm guilty of that. pls dont tell me u dont , cos thats what a big fat liar wld say=

however, there's another thing called - strike a balance.

so in ur list, u divided ur groups of friends to maybe sch friends, working friends, cca friends or whatsoever. and u have alr subconsicously arranged them from the top priority to the least. yes, maybe there r one or two groups are on par (this is probably why u fall into dilemma at times when they ask u out on the same day)

and the common qns that i ask myself... which grp put more effort in asking me out? which grp did i neglect these days? which grp is doing smth that i feel like doing on the day itself? which group is more happening? which grp makes me feel more comfortable? and the list of qns can just keep doing on..

and i believe i don belong to the extremes whereby i only hang out with A GROUP OF PEOPLE.
comon, most of us dont right?


back to track. so i never believe that (for example) a girls outing wld cause someone to only want to be with the girls.. or maybe a wild wild grp wld make this person to be really loud.. but is the nature in the person. so why worry so much if great efforts have been put in to bring fun n bonding...ultimately, no one can change the nature over a night time (so i didnt rule out the possibility of changing the nature)...

remove all da this this and that that, take away all the buts and howevers. believe in every creativity idea that u propose and is gonna work for sure.. cos behind every idea is this great creator...so it will not lead to cliques but something really really great =)


my weird thoughts again. but 50% has been censored. hehe